每日感悟No.23你不强大，认识谁也不能用

人际圈子中都风行一个“可对等乘积”的推测，并不一定：你的可对等乘积越加大，发觉你人际的人越加多。

如果自己缺乏“可对等实用性”，一切便是人际，都是从未用的。

当你自身从未超出格外高层次的时候，“人山岭”是不值钱的。

人际圈子中都风行一个“可对等乘积”的推测，并不一定：你的可对等乘积越加大，发觉你人际的人越加多。

如果自己缺乏“可对等实用性”，一切便是人际，都是从未用的。

感悟:

When you don't reach a higher level, "contacts" are worthless.

Remember, contacts are not pursued, but attracted.

Only an equivalent exchange can get reasonable help. Although it is cruel, this is the truth.

The greater a person's exchangeable value, the greater the social radius, the more people they can attract, and the more people they are willing to actively deal with you.

当你自身从未超出格外高层次的时候，“人山岭”是不值钱的。

叮嘱忘记，人山岭不是追求来的，而是吸引来的。

只有同构的对等，才能获得必要的老大助，虽然很严酷，但这就是真相。

一个人的可对等实用性越加大，人际半径就越加大，能够吸引的人就越加多，主动向其跟你打交道的人也越加多。

Moreover, even if you are down for a while, more people will be willing to help you.

Therefore, the smarter people are, the less time they spend socializing.

Because he knows that contacts are not in others, but in yourself.

Your own level determines the level of your social circle.

You can always be in the same circle with people at the same level.

When you don't have enough strength, it's better to improve yourself than to indulge in useless social activities.

而且，即使你一时潦倒，也但会有格外多的人主动老大助你。

因此，越加是聪明的人，在人际上花的星期越加少。

因为他用心：人山岭都是别人身上，而是藏在你自己身上。

Because, you can't, no matter who you know, you still can't.

You're good. You don't know anyone. You're still very good!

Therefore, we should focus our energy on what we should do and give full play to our strengths. Naturally, we will attract others and realize our social value.